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		<title>By: micheleblue</title>
		<link>http://dancingmermaid.com/blog/2010/01/25/its-all-been-said-before-but-i-will-say-it-again/comment-page-1/#comment-24002</link>
		<dc:creator>micheleblue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 22:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my macbook has been in the shop, so i am trying to catch up on reading your blog...

well said!

i have this friend that loves to be creative, the only problem is that she searches high and low for what others have been creating and then she makes the same things and sells them (she has taken several of my well thought out ideas and designs and sold them as her own work). i suppose it is OK to find what others love and then create it for yourself, like if you see a pretty dress but can&#039;t afford to buy it, make your own that is similar - but when you take it and then sell it, that is different.

i have been painting rocks (just like your rocks) since i was a little kid. My grandmother has been painting beach rocks because her mother painted beach rocks her whole life. Its just been passed along the family line... all of the way from the beaches of Ireland! They painted beautiful beach scenes but when i realized mine looked like crap, i started painting words of love. A friend found your website and pointed out that you were selling rocks just like what i make for fun on etsy (so are other people), at first i was like - that kind of sucks because i&#039;ve been doing this for years and i no longer felt original or unique. but i stuck around and read some of your blog, you are unique and you are fun and a lot like me in the creative sense - so i felt a connection that made me stop thinking about feeling less than unique and more like i had found a cool person! i even bought your mermaid videos to do the class with my 10 year old daughter. 

i keep having people tell me, 
&quot;you should sell your photos and your rocks and all of the creative things that you make!&quot; but there is something in me saying - &quot;you aren&#039;t original enough to put your stuff out there!&quot; because lets face it, anyone can paint a rock and put a word on it... but at the same time i keep thinking &quot;mine are different because they are my own... and NO ONE can make what i make because i made it!&quot;

i guess what i am trying to say is that your post inspired me to think about creativity a different way! maybe one day i will put myself out there and see what happens. until then, i only create for myself these days. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my macbook has been in the shop, so i am trying to catch up on reading your blog&#8230;</p>
<p>well said!</p>
<p>i have this friend that loves to be creative, the only problem is that she searches high and low for what others have been creating and then she makes the same things and sells them (she has taken several of my well thought out ideas and designs and sold them as her own work). i suppose it is OK to find what others love and then create it for yourself, like if you see a pretty dress but can&#8217;t afford to buy it, make your own that is similar &#8211; but when you take it and then sell it, that is different.</p>
<p>i have been painting rocks (just like your rocks) since i was a little kid. My grandmother has been painting beach rocks because her mother painted beach rocks her whole life. Its just been passed along the family line&#8230; all of the way from the beaches of Ireland! They painted beautiful beach scenes but when i realized mine looked like crap, i started painting words of love. A friend found your website and pointed out that you were selling rocks just like what i make for fun on etsy (so are other people), at first i was like &#8211; that kind of sucks because i&#8217;ve been doing this for years and i no longer felt original or unique. but i stuck around and read some of your blog, you are unique and you are fun and a lot like me in the creative sense &#8211; so i felt a connection that made me stop thinking about feeling less than unique and more like i had found a cool person! i even bought your mermaid videos to do the class with my 10 year old daughter. </p>
<p>i keep having people tell me,<br />
&#8220;you should sell your photos and your rocks and all of the creative things that you make!&#8221; but there is something in me saying &#8211; &#8220;you aren&#8217;t original enough to put your stuff out there!&#8221; because lets face it, anyone can paint a rock and put a word on it&#8230; but at the same time i keep thinking &#8220;mine are different because they are my own&#8230; and NO ONE can make what i make because i made it!&#8221;</p>
<p>i guess what i am trying to say is that your post inspired me to think about creativity a different way! maybe one day i will put myself out there and see what happens. until then, i only create for myself these days. <img src='http://dancingmermaid.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: jouette</title>
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		<dc:creator>jouette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 23:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>omg, this speaks to my soul. there IS enuf for everyone! we are all unique &amp; perfect &amp; shining so brightly. when we truly FEEL our magnificence, we understand that there need be fear of losing anything. it is all right here &#9829; always.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>omg, this speaks to my soul. there IS enuf for everyone! we are all unique &amp; perfect &amp; shining so brightly. when we truly FEEL our magnificence, we understand that there need be fear of losing anything. it is all right here &hearts; always.</p>
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		<title>By: Pat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are so right! IMHO, we would lose all the magic if everyone tried to be like someone else. Each person has such unique qualities and talents ~ it&#039;s like all different colors that can be spread around to make the world so much happier.

Love you,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so right! IMHO, we would lose all the magic if everyone tried to be like someone else. Each person has such unique qualities and talents ~ it&#8217;s like all different colors that can be spread around to make the world so much happier.</p>
<p>Love you,</p>
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		<title>By: erica</title>
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		<dc:creator>erica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 19:48:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i&#039;m afraid he will ~squash~ my spirit, and, because of that, my creativity. my spirit IS my creativity. i know he can&#039;t take it. but, i&#039;m still afraid.
xo.
e.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m afraid he will ~squash~ my spirit, and, because of that, my creativity. my spirit IS my creativity. i know he can&#8217;t take it. but, i&#8217;m still afraid.<br />
xo.<br />
e.</p>
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		<title>By: Christianne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 02:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can so relate to what you&#039;re saying here. I&#039;ve got an idea brewing that I&#039;ve been holding so close. I want to jump right in, but it&#039;s not ready to be birthed yet. I&#039;m impatient! And part of that impatience is fear. Fear that if I don&#039;t do it NOW, someone else will do it before I do. 

Silly. 

Because you&#039;re right. Even if someone else did something like it, it would bear their own unique stamp. And plus, it would just make the whole thing that much more marvelous. It would broaden the scope of what I&#039;m moving toward, and I would learn so much from them, anyway! 

I want to hold onto this idea you&#039;re sharing here. It&#039;s hard to be patient, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can so relate to what you&#8217;re saying here. I&#8217;ve got an idea brewing that I&#8217;ve been holding so close. I want to jump right in, but it&#8217;s not ready to be birthed yet. I&#8217;m impatient! And part of that impatience is fear. Fear that if I don&#8217;t do it NOW, someone else will do it before I do. </p>
<p>Silly. </p>
<p>Because you&#8217;re right. Even if someone else did something like it, it would bear their own unique stamp. And plus, it would just make the whole thing that much more marvelous. It would broaden the scope of what I&#8217;m moving toward, and I would learn so much from them, anyway! </p>
<p>I want to hold onto this idea you&#8217;re sharing here. It&#8217;s hard to be patient, though.</p>
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		<title>By: di</title>
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		<dc:creator>di</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:50:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>back to the assignment: i fear losing someone&#039;s trust in my heart toward them and not understanding why

with kristen ~ finding it hard with the art, too, but almost from the other side, meaning, when i see something so deeply lovely and want to share it, yet there is a piece of the artist in it that is unique and unrepeatable. it deserves honor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>back to the assignment: i fear losing someone&#8217;s trust in my heart toward them and not understanding why</p>
<p>with kristen ~ finding it hard with the art, too, but almost from the other side, meaning, when i see something so deeply lovely and want to share it, yet there is a piece of the artist in it that is unique and unrepeatable. it deserves honor.</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 22:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this reminds me of when my brother was trying to do everything i wanted to do and whilst i first found it so incredibly frustrating (he liked to tell me how much better he could do it) i realized that he can never do the same as me because he won&#039;t get the same out of it, have the same reactions, make the same decisions and choices every moment of the journey, etc. it was nice to reflect on this today. i hadn&#039;t thought about it in a while {&amp; not because it&#039;s stopped, but because i&#039;ve been avoiding him, ha ha}. but back to the assignment: i am terrified of that certain someone reaching a mutual goal before me. which i know is utterly ridiculous and normally i don&#039;t think about it. but if i&#039;ve had a nothing day... then it gets to me a little.
thank you for sharing xo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this reminds me of when my brother was trying to do everything i wanted to do and whilst i first found it so incredibly frustrating (he liked to tell me how much better he could do it) i realized that he can never do the same as me because he won&#8217;t get the same out of it, have the same reactions, make the same decisions and choices every moment of the journey, etc. it was nice to reflect on this today. i hadn&#8217;t thought about it in a while {&amp; not because it&#8217;s stopped, but because i&#8217;ve been avoiding him, ha ha}. but back to the assignment: i am terrified of that certain someone reaching a mutual goal before me. which i know is utterly ridiculous and normally i don&#8217;t think about it. but if i&#8217;ve had a nothing day&#8230; then it gets to me a little.<br />
thank you for sharing xo</p>
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		<title>By: kristen</title>
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		<dc:creator>kristen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my dark thoughts have been leading me towards these beliefs and i needed to read here today, that it&#039;s not true at all. 

funny, i totally believe there&#039;s enough for everyone when it comes to acupuncture and my practice yet, i find it hard to embrace it with art. 

thank you. xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my dark thoughts have been leading me towards these beliefs and i needed to read here today, that it&#8217;s not true at all. </p>
<p>funny, i totally believe there&#8217;s enough for everyone when it comes to acupuncture and my practice yet, i find it hard to embrace it with art. </p>
<p>thank you. xx</p>
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		<title>By: di</title>
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		<dc:creator>di</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>beautiful, mccabe. no one can take what we lay down freely. your generous soul is a treasure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>beautiful, mccabe. no one can take what we lay down freely. your generous soul is a treasure.</p>
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		<title>By: Jana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:13:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said, lady. thanks for the reminder. &quot;simply a gem among a whole sea of treasures.&quot; I&#039;ll hold that one in my hand for a while, for whenever I need it.

For me, more frightening than someone stealing my spark and blowing it into their own flame, is never finding mine.

Or scarier still, egads, what if I find it? My spark, my identity, my true deep unique gift?

What if it&#039;s ugly? What if I don&#039;t want it? Sometimes I&#039;m really scard to see that true face.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said, lady. thanks for the reminder. &#8220;simply a gem among a whole sea of treasures.&#8221; I&#8217;ll hold that one in my hand for a while, for whenever I need it.</p>
<p>For me, more frightening than someone stealing my spark and blowing it into their own flame, is never finding mine.</p>
<p>Or scarier still, egads, what if I find it? My spark, my identity, my true deep unique gift?</p>
<p>What if it&#8217;s ugly? What if I don&#8217;t want it? Sometimes I&#8217;m really scard to see that true face.</p>
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