sweet faced girls

would you ever look
into these sweet little
fairy faces
and say
no, you can not
do that you are too
old
fat
tired
you don’t have the talent
you should keep it small
stay realistic
stop dreaming
stop wishing
keep doing what you are doing
even though it does not make you happy
shut up and be thankful
don’t make a stir
do what is expected
and don’t worry because
you will be worthy when you
lose 10 pounds
get that job
kiss that boy
have that baby
write that book
go on that retreat
win that lottery ticket
of course you would
not
who wants to fuck
with this kind of purity
so close to the source
beautifully flawed and innocent
please remember
you are this little girl too
we all still have this spirit in us
wanting to be inspired, loved,
and understood
these beams of iridescent light
mini sparklers of girls
they are you
they are me
they are us
lets pinky promise
right now
to be ever so kind
and gentle when these
girls need protecting
and nurturing
promise?


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PROMISE! and LOVE! thank you…
By Alison on 08.30.09 11:43 am
this is WONDERFUL… let’s pinky promise, no time to waste!
By susan on 08.30.09 11:47 am
Pinky Swear!! Thanks for the reminder!
By rachel whetzel on 08.30.09 2:30 pm
Oh, how I needed to read this, thank you!!
Big hugs for this writing.
Smiles,
Jill from N.H.
nalettejm@yahoo.com
By Jill on 08.30.09 3:14 pm
I promise. thank you, this was a great post for me to read today.
By Kelly G on 08.30.09 4:38 pm
this post right here, in this very moment, just opened the floodgates.
tender touch.
i pinky promise.
By jessamyn on 08.30.09 5:59 pm
[...] Sweet Faced Girls- When I read Mccabe’s post, it revealed the possibility that sometimes we can be our own harshest critics. Time to throw off old habits & embrace the lovely “girl” in each of us. (hey boys, it can be for you too! i won’t leave you out) [...]
By “Around the Web” Roundup l melly hocking on 08.31.09 6:30 am
Beautiful words and yes, pinky swear! I wish I had heard those words when I was a little girl…but hey, it’s never too late is it?
xo
By Pat on 08.31.09 7:04 am
From the bottom of my heart. I completely love you! You are amazing. And again, my sweet soul sister – this is something that I needed to read today. YAY you!!!
By AndreaD on 08.31.09 7:39 am
I just love you. Why can’t you live next door to me?!?
By Kavindra on 08.31.09 10:15 am
Pinky promise. Those words were really needed today. Love it…love you.
By Jen on 08.31.09 11:22 am
one of my favorite posts from you.
oh, and yes, I promise.
By jessica on 08.31.09 11:34 am
yep! i do!
xo.
e.
come watch my new vid!!!
By erica on 08.31.09 2:56 pm
pinky swear!!!!! love you! xoxoxo
By stef on 08.31.09 8:42 pm
Mccabe I needed this and I wish you were in my city so I could have you over for tea and messy art making, but if not that then blessedly you are in these girls lives. You are the best sort of rudder for us all. THANK YOU! I pinky swear.
By Honey on 08.31.09 9:06 pm
thank you so much for this reminder!! and I pinky swear and cross my heart, oh yes I do!! love, ~ M.
By Mariella on 09.01.09 6:12 am
pinky promise. promise.
”aaaaawwwwwww’ for your new funky banner! xx
By Linni on 09.01.09 11:06 am
you’re on fire! or maybe, you’ve always been on fire. i’m a new reader and it’s been so awesome discovering these great posts!
By brian papa on 09.02.09 7:41 pm
Kind and gentle, but also fierce! I feel like if I could do anything in this world, I would want to save girls from ever EVER feeling smaller than they are.
sigh.
xo
By megg on 09.03.09 10:12 am
PROMISE!
By kathy grace on 09.04.09 8:41 am
yes!! pinkyswearpromise! xo
By luzie on 09.05.09 1:15 am
Pinky swear with a back snap!
By Sarah on 09.10.09 8:18 pm
oh, this made me tear up. thank you for the beautiful reminder! xoxo
By leah on 09.23.09 10:51 am
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